Also..you know, Amy and I talk about this every once in a while and say "were we so bad or was I that bad that.." and NO..of course you weren't Sam..you know better than that (2 x 4 inserted here)..there IS no rationalizing the irrational actions that the spouses do my friend!! I just don't want you to think you EVER were the sole or even main cause of this..YOU are working your brains out trying to help yourself and your family..that says a lot about you my friend
Tawnya
Tawnya, thanks for your kind words! I did not mean to sound like I even remotely thought that I am a bad husband or anything like that. I was just saying that I would like to ask W that, to make her think about what she's doing.
