Keep reminding yourself that this arrangement will not be forever and you will get to be with your son more. As I told you, you have a right to see him 50% of the time. It is working a schedule out that is hard.

I agree that a physical separation is what you need at this time. She would try to get you pulled into a R talk and you don't want that. When you don't feel like talking about it and need to get your head clear.....that is certainly NOT the time to talk just b/c she chooses the time. So, I believe you are making the right decision for now.

I hope that in time, she will get her act together and see what she is losing and make a turn around, but there is to guarantee.

Anyway, take good care of yourself and keep posing to us.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!