HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

BM,

I have a tough time GAL... I always have to contact him to remind him and bug him about paying bills. He had been getting more and more selfish about financial support, cutting back on providing enough and pushing me to get a job. I got a contract position that was lasted for about less than 2 months.

I know I shouldn't snoop did stop for a while when I couldn't take it anymore. But recently I found out that he's going on a 2 week vacation to Europe with OW (who is from Europe) and had used our frequent flyer miles to purchase the tickets...

I don't want to this pain anymore but something always happens...how do you detach from H if you have to hound him to pay bills?