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sorry you find yourdelf here
a lot of these mlcers leave their clothes!
mine left 2 big cartonfulls and only packed sopme clothes in a white plastic bag to take

Sounds like you are doing the right things Gal, dancing, taking care of yourself, your kids and pets and property
Also know these men in MLC spend a lot of money
so protect your self and property
MLC lasts a long time
read the MLC resources and there are many books available
jim conway and Sally conway wrote some good ones
these men LIE so it is hard to believe much of what they say
they Usually have A and OW
Mine also went to a few therapy sessions and then found an excuse to stop
only thing was he was never willing to admit the fact he was in A at that time and it was A and MLC(who knows what comed first)
that pulled him out
so i jsut suggest to
you continur Counseling
read dance
take care of you
pray mediate
let H go give him space and no pressure
validate him when you can
know this is a crises--This is not your fault
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow