T- I think you handled x right.

it is GOOD for him to spend time with the kids.
it is EVEN BETTER that you sit back and don't bark..they are always waiting for us to bark!!!

as always -- good thinking

oh see my thread- going to post now.

M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again