Good luck with your job, I will keep my fingers crossed.
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My xh is very stuborn so I don't know if he will hold everything that I did against me or not
My H is the same and he told me recently that he is bitter.
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I sometimes worry about it but you know if the shoe was on the other foot & he was trying to find out what I was up to he would have done the same thing or worse.
Exactly!
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It does sound like his life isn't going so well right now.
My H's neither. - I am still amazied how your H's sitch and my H's continue on the same path.
Have a lovely rest of the week and week-end. (((HUGS)))
Thank you all so much for the prayers & well wishes about the job! I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I sure hope it all works out.
I did so much snooping & found out about OW, I would have never known if I had not done that. I had a report run on the OW & I think I knew more about her than he did. When I wrote him the letter I told him in it that she had been M at least 3 times, maybe more & I knew he hated that sort of thing. I really don't think he knew that until I told him but he had gone too far, I guess he thought, & was so mad at me at the time that he didn't think he could turn back. Plus, she is very manipulative.
I've got a bad headache tonight, I guess it's the weather. We are supposed to have a cold front coming thru here tomorrow & it could be stormy, possible tornadoes so I guess that is why I have a headache.
Thank you all so much for being here for me!! I know I haven't been reading a lot of threads lately but I will, I promise! I think about you & pray for all of you all the time!!!!
I hope your headache has gone in the meantime. - Good idea to try not to get your hopes up too much regarding the job. However, I still hope you will get it.
Thank you, my headache is finally gone!! We had a tornado hit yesterday, it was probably 5 or 10 miles from me. There were some buildings damaged & trees down but thankfully no one was hurt. I think it just dipped down & back up & it wasn't as strong as some have been in the past. After all that my headache went away. It's something about the pressure in the atmosphere, I guess.
No news from my sitch. I still haven't heard anything about XH moving back to the states but I believe it is supposed to happen sometime this month. It could be interesting.
Someone told me to sit back & watch, let the xh & ow show play out, it will. I hope they are right.
He had it all, a great job, a roof over his head, a good wife & he threw it all away. Now, he doesn't have a job, nor a place to live, nor a good wife!
N, Take the focus off your xh moving back to the States. Think of other things. When you aren't looking for something, suddenly the dynamics will change. Sit quietly and patiently. Things will begin to drop in your lap when you do this.
No news on the job? Have you touched base with them to see how your interview went?
I read about the nasty weather in your area. It's starting rather early for your area isn't it?
N, take care of yourself...focus on something different today. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Nlt, I'm so glad the tornado was not right in your area.
Originally Posted By: snodderly
Take the focus off your xh moving back to the States. Think of other things. When you aren't looking for something, suddenly the dynamics will change. Sit quietly and patiently. Things will begin to drop in your lap when you do this.
I like Snodderly's advice. Sometimes it's when you least expect it that things happen. Sooner or later H will realize all he gave up, even if things do not work out between the two of you. Keep praying and one day your prayers may be answered.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
Thank you for checking on me! Yes, I have been focusing too much on xh moving back to the states but today, I've been doing my best not to think about it. I'm out trimming the hedges, my arms are so tired I'm having trouble typing. They are big hedges & I'm trying to lower them some, I usually hire someone to do it but they won't trim them lower. My xh hated this job but I think I'm making them look pretty good.
I think you are both right & I just need to sit back quietly & patiently.
As far as the bad weather, it is the season. April is probably the worse, I remember when I was a kid there was a night in April, 1974 where they all it the night of the tornadoes, I lived in Alabama at the time & it was horrible! It hit my home town, thank goodness it didn't damage our house but it sure did a lot of others. That was an awful site to see.
As far as the job, they told me they would be making a decision on Friday, which was yesterday or Monday. They also said they would let me know one way or the other so if I have not heard from them by Tuesday I will call. Please continue to pray! This would be something really good for me!!!
Thank you all for being here for me & helping me keep my spirits up!!
I am glad your headache went away but sorry to hear about the tornado. Good that nobody was hurt.
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He had it all, a great job, a roof over his head, a good wife & he threw it all away. Now, he doesn't have a job, nor a place to live, nor a good wife!
This sounds so familiar!!!
I hope for you that you will hear about the job soon. Snodderly gave you some good advice.
Well, today was a depressing day for me. My D was final a year ago on the 8th of this month, it will be a year since I've seen my x coming up the middle of this month. It was a beautiful day, I was still sore & tired from my hedge trimming yesterday but I did make it to church. This afternoon I walked around outside with my dog, then we sat outside for a while & enjoyed the weather but thoughts started creeping in about how my life was with my H, we bought this house together.... well you know how it is. I always looked forward to spring, we would plants flowers & tomatoes together & just had a good time. I still just miss him.
Ok, sorry I'll try to quit having my pity party, that was today, tomorrow has to be better.
Thank you for the well wishes about the job, I so hope something good is about to happen. It's time! Ok, enough pity party!!!:)
The weather turned nasty tonight, at least the storms were not too bad. But now they are predicting snow for us tomorrow!! That is very unusual for this area this time of year! I know it has been cold sometimes but SNOW! At least I haven't planted any flowers or tomatoes yet.
I hope you all have a good night & good week. Thanks for letting me vent a little. You guys are wonderful!!!
