I do know how hard it is when the XH blames you for everything & says you are not the person he married. Mine did that too but that was before D.
My XH also blamed me just after he left for not being the same person he married and he still continues to say so.
I had quite a good week-end. The weather was just beautiful and warm and everybody was on the water front.
Yesterday I went for a bike ride with my GF and today I hurt all over.
In the evening I did meet the guy again I got to know on Friday evening. He joined me at the blues concert which was very good. Unfortunately, the music is always so loud nowadays that it is impossible to have a conversation apart from in the intervals. He seems to be a very interesting person who worked all over the world, but who knows if everything he told me is true. I just don't trust men over 45 anymore. My GF told me that most of them are liars! Anyway, I still enjoyed the evening very much.
Today was another beautiful and warm day and I went for a walk and afterwards for an ice cream.