"how can we reconcile if we dont see each other" ... Nevertheless, the times he chose to come home, even if it was very late, he found me in bed (after 1 in the morning), so I wasnt nagging...Typically he wakes up around noon so our morning is also "wasted" but I dont nag about it.
We will spend quality time together. The quality time will entail... (fill in the blanks)
Quote:
Because he NEVER, NEVER has shown to me any interest about me, my life, my feelings, my thoughts. Sure, he cares about technicalities but believe me, technicalities are not my problem. THe way we are now, I wouldnt be surprised if he found a co worker- again- to fall in love with. Our connection is NOT there.
That H and I will form a connection. For this connection to happen H will do the following List some things
I will do the following List some things How will we behave for this to happen.
The schedule is what it is Kalni and I can see that you accept that. I don't see anything wrong with you going away for a weekend sometimes. I doubt that will lead you further away from H. You did a great thing by not waiting around for H and going to the beach, great GAL and no expectations.
What are your thoughts on those? I haven't expanded more as I'd really like to hear what you ideas are for achieving those goals and breaking them down. This is all JMO, I hope it is in some way helpful.
