OK! Not moral.. learnt behaviour.. the "I'm never doing that again" (be unfaithful).
BND.. this classes as some serious astrological research.. to track a sitch so closely, its freaky! Things happen to us in life when personal planets (his Venus) are 'transited'.. contacted, by the Outer planets (Neptune, Uranus, Saturn, Pluto).. and marks a phase of life where a sitch plays out over long periods of time.. 1-5 years typically, but you can time points of 'crisis' or events within that phase of life exactly when one of the Personal planets (like the Moon, Mars, or Venus).. comes along and contacts the outer planet, sort of switching it 'on', activating it... um.. makes sense!? Clear as mud hey...
So the major transit pattern is Pluto squaring his Venus.. and Venus in the sky is going around activating that Pluto.. Pluto-Venus is about transformation of relationships, how you relate and also indicates a time of affairs, and sexual and other obsessions and takes you to the depths of despair, down into hell. Oh and it also drains your finances to the depths too (he told me Thursday he is nearly all out of savings! Figures).