And you know what else? This "I cant do anything about it" attitude, "I am caught in this schedule", "I am sorry I would like it to be different but I cant change it", being tired, sleepy, looking lifeless all the time, having no insterests other than his job, nothing to make me curious about him, his process of thinking does seem awful weak and "poor" to me. And that aint attarctive at all...
