The first thing you need to know about MLCers is that they are liars. They cannot help themselves. My W expected me to just say "fine" when she wanted to leave without taking any responsibility. You must hold him accountable, which means filing full disclosures. Let the attorney be the bad guy. You don't have to discuss D with him. I have never discussed our situation directly with my W. Everyone here will tell you to protect yourself, and full disclosure comes with the territory. If he wants a divorce, let him do the work. Don't believe anything he says. Protect yourself. Yes, it hurts, but rational thought must temper your feelings.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
