I don't like being separated, I don't feel he is really working on the M if he chooses not to work on coming back for 18 months when his lease is up in four. I feel that if I date him under these conditions that I am the only one working on the M. I also feel that he puts the R for our M on me choosing the kids or him. I feel like he is playing a game of wanting his own way and getting out of the M but blaming me for placing my kids before him.
Any one see another way? Am I blaming him or holding him responsible?
