Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[bluerain]

I think that puppy is right, that's not an outrageous boundary for you to set at all. But I also wouldn't be surprised if she balks at it. She should understand your concern, but then again, there are lots of things that she should (and shouldn't!) be doing!

Dont let her make you feel bad if you do choose to set this boundary. She is being disrespectful. But I would guess that through all of the fog in her head she wont be able to see it that way.