i do want to enforce the no contact plan. we are at such a critical point right now that i feel so stuck. we have to agree to close on the store tomorrow. we were moving along so nicely until he got cold feet and changed the whole outlook. i can tell him no contact with her, he can agree, we close on the store, and who knows? what if he contacts her after we already own the business? its like im stuck. now is the crucial point, where i decide to either stick with him and work through it all or i walk away now. once we have the business i am not walking away so fast. he wants the business, he wants to work on us, its that i have to trust him that he will give it his all.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09