I'm confused. Last nite and this morning she seemed emotionally needy with respect to hugs and back rubs. She would initiate and when I tried to break away, she would hold on. I would re-engage the hug. I'm not sure if this is enabling her to leave. Should I not allow her to "use" me for emotional support?
How should I handle her initiating hugs or asking for foot/back rubs, knowing that she's leaving in less than 2 weeks?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13