I'm confused. Last nite and this morning she seemed emotionally needy with respect to hugs and back rubs. She would initiate and when I tried to break away, she would hold on. I would re-engage the hug. I'm not sure if this is enabling her to leave. Should I not allow her to "use" me for emotional support?

How should I handle her initiating hugs or asking for foot/back rubs, knowing that she's leaving in less than 2 weeks?


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13