WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[confusedinpa]

When I got back from talking with her Dad, I called her to ket her know I was on my way back. She mentioned that she needed to go walmart and then grocery shopping. She said she could go by herself or we can go together. I told her we can talk about it when I got home. When I did get home she seemed like she was back in WAW mode. She was on her laptop while I finished the kids laundry. When I was done we all wound up going. On the way back, I mentioned that in retrospec she could have gone by herself. She said that's what she would have preferred. I said I though she wanted us all to go. She said no, she felt I had made the decision that we were all going. I told her that I thought she told our oldest he can pick up a toy so I got the sense we all needed to go. She said he didn't want to go either

When we got home, I told her this was a good example how one of us should have just said something rather than us guessing what each other wanted. She agreed.

She said that while our youngest was napping she was going to the grocery store and then head over to work on her apartment. I said I was just going to play with the kids outside so it was really her choice what she did.

She got back from the grocery store and off she went her apartment. I'm relieved somewhat that she's not her so I don't feel like I need to walk on eggshells. It still hurts knowing that she's leaving though

I hope its the right thing for us. I guess if she feels its the right thing for her, I need to accept that its the right thing for her