YEAH!!! You did so good in not answering. See how he is just wanting to communicate for lame reasons and to keep you right where he wants you. But maybe you should tell him next time that those sorts of communication can be done by email as well. Then you don't have to worry about being tempted to answer the phone.
I know the news about your cousin is hard with the life dreams. This isn't the life that any of us wanted. I look at married people with babies like I have and feel so envious too. Guess its something we have to accept for now.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!