Yes, the kids are the innocent ones in all of this. Very sad, but BS's first priority is her and K. The other child is a sad statistic too, but I don't think BS is ready to embrace that child yet...if ever. Not saying she needs to say unkind things to or about him, but trying to not get emotional at all about him may be best for awhile.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
