Trusting, I see by your sig that you have been going through this for a long time. I noticed that you said that your H got out and drove around in his car to call you. Is this b/c he can't call in front of OW? I am really frustrated b/c my h will call me about something, in front of og (too young for w) and talk to me with this tone like I am dirt under his feet. I guess it's to impress her??? Oooh, look how mean I can be to my w of 12 years and the mother of my children... I wish he would go somewhere else to call me, but chooses to do this instead. They have only been together for a couple of months, and he feels the need to do this why??? It's not like it's been two years for us. We just sep. the end of December. Going to hearing for D on 4/20. The day after our 12th anniversary.
uggggggg You know, at this point, if he's with the girl fine. Couldn't he at least speak to me in a respectful manner though? When and if I go out later and start looking for another man... that would NOT be a characteristic I would go for.. lets see- ignores his kids- check disrespects wife and mother of kids- check broke from paying c/s- check acts like a teenager- check What a great catch. That right there is the difference between an 18 yo girl and a 32 year old woman folks.
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