fib, I haven't ever posted to you but wanted to say hello.
I am sorry your daughter hasn't been feeling well. Thank goodness it was the fever that brought the seizure on, hope she is better soon.
I wanted to 2nd you on this one:
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I will admit that the stress with this is tough. Having to be with your STBXW under those conditions...is not easy. Being referred to, under those conditions, as 'the children's father', is belittling but I can deal with that. Afterall, it's the truth.
Last fall, one month before our divorce, my D4 was hospitalized overnight for dehydration due to a nasty flu. Me, xH, and poor sick D4 in a small ER room for 10 hours. Yup. Not fun. Both of us walked out in scrubs due to bodily fluids that was escaping D4. It was just weird to be in such close contact with xH, passing D4 back and forth and things like that. I left the room to change out of clothes into scrubs, and xH did the same. People kept coming in the room referring to us as spouses, which we were at that point. I didn't correct anyone, neither did xH.
Anyway, I babble. But your quote above stuck a chord, because xH and I used to work so well as a team with our sick children, and now we still do better than others, but its bumpy.
