Detaching is more general - it's not being co-dependent, it means to remove yourself from the daily agony of reliving mistakes you've made in a marriage, it means focusing on yourself, and what you can stand.
I guess this is where I need to be.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
