I don't know what I'm doing? My wife wants no communication at all, even though we have kids and are sharing them 50/50! It's almost like I'm the trigger that sets her off. Her anger and rage at me is something to behold. It's hard to take, especially when I still want to save our marriage and have a reconciliation/reinvention of our marriage. I think I'm trying to detatch.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.