Hi Glam sorry you didn't get any good vibes from H. He sure seems like he expects you to drop everything and sit by the phone on the off chance he may give you a call or turn up.
Well you got news for him your children are growing up and you and they both have lots of living to do.
It must be so frustrating and mentally draining.
In his way he is giving you plenty of clues as to his being done (whether he means them or it is just his own misery talking who knows).
Hard to understand the mind that can hold a grudge all those years about taking his children to a church. Why did he not take his children to the church of his choice if it mattered so much?
Are you different faiths or was it really just a case of a different church.
He has so many grudges and anger and only he can get past those,seems he would rather wallow.He reminds me of someone else's h.
I am sorry about the jobs, but your attitude towards the house is so positive,good for you. I hung on to mine for far to long,I rattled around in a big place on my own and got trapped by all the past and lost dreams for the future.
It kept me trapped in a prison of my own making.
Looking back the move was the best thing I did. Hard to do it alone but with your attitude and determination I can see it being a great adventure and a huge turning point in your healing and making a new life for your children.
I am sure God has so much more for you in your life Glam. IMO life is a gift and to wallow and waste it is a sin.
I know this is something you never wanted (did any of us) but facing the reality of the situation as you are, will go along way towards you living the life that God wants you to have.
Not sure if your h has op but have you ever done a 180 and been completely honest with him either in C or alone about how you feel and that you are moving ahead with or without him.
Maybe that would be a wake up call for him.
Did you feel the goodbye hug had to do with your talk on selling the house and maybe he felt you were moving on without him and letting him go so to speak.
I guess there is so much we will never know or understand but life is for living not waiting on the sidelines holding onto grudges.
Good luck with making your plans and I am sure financially it wil be a big help.
Have you any plans for a new job I know you have been looking.
Take care.