I hope everything with the D will go smoothly after the tax problems will be solved. It takes time to get used to being divorced. I still have problems saying XH.
Vali my H is stalling over similar things. Interesting really b/c once I have his signature on one document he gets �30k from me. You would think that would be a little bit of an incentive to get it done!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
hmmmmm True...I have been calling him my EX for a while...even though he is not...and sometimes i have to remember to say Husband when dealing with people....
Yes the tax thing is resolved and my lawyer will be sending the FINAL draft to me no later than Wednesday. So hopefully will have a hearing next week to get divorced finally.
Weird.
Met with Mr. Sexy Voice and decided that I really need more than he can give...it was sad for both of us but I trust we will remain friends---I still think he is a good man...just not the right one for me...I need so much more. And he is focusing oon other things---like career and his daughter---and that takes precedence right now...and I am glad he was able to tell me that...
Sigh...oh well...I have no plans on dating...I think I just want to be alone and have joined a group of others who do activities together...but NO DATING. I am going to a museum in a couple of weeks with said group...I am sure it will be great fun!
Now to get used to being Vali + maiden name....I am using my maiden name on practically everything...and will change it legally once the divorce goes through. At work I am still legally Vali + Married name.But I introduce myself as Vali + Maiden name now to everyone I meet...and at church too...sigh.
Hope you're doing well and that you are having beautiful weather...
It's gorgeous here...except for tree pollen which I am allergic to...LOL! Ah well, thank goodness for allergy shots!
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Gosh Alison, no kidding! Goes to show how little we know these men...
Mighty Midget (aka Sponge Bob) is being all nicey-nice...I think because we are at the end. I am thankful for that because at least he is not acting like Satan.
We can never win with these psycho men...I say let's be glad if they are in a 'good' mood at the end and we will do okay...we don't want it to be the other way around because they will become drama queens...and be whiny and stuff...ridiculous.
So, I will say a prayer for you that all get done...
Hugs! Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Met with Mr. Sexy Voice and decided that I really need more than he can give...it was sad for both of us but I trust we will remain friends---I still think he is a good man...just not the right one for me...I need so much more.
I am sorry about this but I think the same way about the guys I met so far.
It must be nice to be part of a group for activities. You might get to know somebody nice there.
I am keeping my married name. I have had it almost longer than my maiden name. I really could not get used to my maiden name again.
You are more lucky with the weather. We are supposed to have warmer weather as the week goes by and I hope it will come true. It has been gray and cold again the last few days.
Well, I decided that I did want to be taken out on dates after all...Met this very nice Australian man...10years older...he seems very interested in me and I do like him...
My only concern is how to deal with them if they get more attached than I do. I suppose the only thing is to be truthful, I suppose....sigh...this is so different than when I was truly in the dating scene in 1992.
Oh well....
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
...this is so different than when I was truly in the dating scene in 1992.
just to cheer you up try doing it again since 1965!!!yeh exactly no wonder I gave up after 2 attempts. Men my age want women in there 30's. Men older than me are looking for a companionship nurse!! So quit complaining- only joking. I like reading your dates.
