Hey ((Julia)) - I guess for me, I see that getting D isn't or doesn't have to be a death sentance for a R or friendship with my H. Am I giving up control?? Maybe?? Something DBcoach Jody told me, still sticks in my head - that maybe my H & I need to D - to come back together. Who knows ...... but flip floping emotions are natural here - right??? If how you feel about your H isn't craved in stone .... that is ok here (there's probably a Flip Flop committee too). Just keeping them on an even keel is the key.
Your weekend sounds very nice & a trip to the coast to see your niece, how wonderful!! Your travel plans sound exciting!! Have to say I love to travel & am very jealous. Not quite sure I'd ever want to go to Asia, but Australia & New Zealand is supposed to be simply beautiful!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Just keeping them on an even keel is the key.
Not quite sure I'd ever want to go to Asia, but Australia & New Zealand is supposed to be simply beautiful!!