Love Is Whatever You Can Still Betray

[Thinker]

But how "insulting" that I would imply (when I confronted her last week about EA) that she's obsessed with OM and behaving like a teenager! Why does there always have to be another man suspected? Can't she just want freedom for herself? It is SO insulting to suggest that a grown woman would behave that way! Clearly we can never be friends.

I just had the same discussion last night and then again this morning. In the view of my W, OM has NOTHING to do with what is going on in our R. Our R is bad, unrepairable, and OM has nothing to do with that. If I think otherwise, then I am obviously the one who is deluded and obsessed with the OM...

AAAARRGGHHHH!

"Wife, I agree that OM is not the only issue in our marriage. However, at the moment, he IS the most immediate obstacle, and that needs to end so we can address our issues."

Thank you. I need to copy that onto a notecard and carry it with me