Great advice about staying out the house. Too much time to think when I'm alone. Ran this morning to my new iPod mix - awesome! It ends with Bon Jovi's "It's My Life"!!
? about bills - got a call from my BF who's H works with my H. H took advance on next check, which is supposed to be the 1st one going to his new ckg acct for his portion of the bills, cc pymts, etc. BF was upset with his behavior, but I think I did a good job not obsessing.. his $, his choices.
Told BF all I can do is work on being the best me possible, and maybe he'll decide he'd like to be friends or more sometime later. Until then, can't worry about what he's spending $ on (but what is he spending $ on?!, haha!) or who he's with. Just take care of myself.
But, here's the ?, if he doesn't follow thru on paying the bills as we separated them 2 wks ago, I don't think there's anything legally to do - we'd both still be responsible for the debt incurred up until a D, right? I think I can and should close any accounts I can now. But not much else to do, right?
