Sitting, waiting, wishing... #60

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K.. I am shocked that he is working both Saturday AND Sunday.. is this after his trip away? And he works all week too doesnt he... so is that a 7 day working week then??? No wonder you didnt respond when he toyed with your hair.. I expect you must feel somewhat angry.. and.. well, how could you not feel rejected? Yes its work and money and his career, but at the end of the day, the most valuable thing you can give a person (or to his kids) is time.. and he doesnt give you his time. He is saving it all for himself, his aspirations.. or, like the C said, he is STILL using work as a device to avoid things.

I know you dont care to look at the reasons though, just the result.. which is you in an R with a man that works ALL week. How can you get it through to him that this matters? Without shaming him, as that book explains (its very good isnt it!)