Trixi is right, people dont post much during weekends...
Having said that, I dont know what advice to give you. His letter shows no anger but a "let's get over with this" attitude because he cant handle the hurt anymore. And Trixi is right again saying that the last thing to do right now is to try and find who is to blame. The most correct answer to that is almost always :both partners.
Some things he says, if realy true, are very hurtful. Were you aware of the fact that he has burt by them? Did you try to change your attitude. You cant force him to change but you sure can change yourself if you put your mind to it.
What it all comes down to is, what do you want to you? Do you want to save your marriage? Are you willing to do all it takes? Because if you do, he has sure given you some clear "guidelines" about all the things you should try and change... Stay strong, good luck... K
