Hope you are doing ok today. During the last year or so that i have been on DB, I have read quite a few sitches. Obviously i went through some things myslef. If I would not have, my opinions would be totally different. As a matter of fact roughly ten yrs. ago, one of my buddies went through this WAW thing. You do not want to know what I called her adn what i suggest he do. I have to admit that I am surprised at your optimism after having found out about this affair.....BUT i understand it. I have been there and i have felt the same way as you do. Having said all that, your challenge will be to GAL. To cccupy yourself physically and mentally. Good luck on the job front and I hope you can find some semblance of happiness during these tough times.