I'm not on myspace or facebook. I did set up accounts a couple of years ago, but simply never used them. I will offer this though, skdahnke@earthlink.net if that works. Your call.
In regard to your anxiety, it is completely normal. There is so much uncertainty ahead of you it is difficult to choose a diretion to go and before you know it your spun around and you're back to square one.
As an alternate to D paperwork, you could put together a seperation agreement, where things like finances, visitation, vacation schedules, etc... are spelled out. An agreement like this will allow you to plan better and schedule time more easily. I can imagine at the moment, you don't know what days he will visit the kids or what bills he will be responsible for. The seperation agreement, puts it on paper and is legaly binding. Just a thought, it may help.
The sun is finally shining here in MN. I think its been about 2 weeks since I've seen any blue sky. I'm going to try to get outside and watch the snow melt!!! Getting a little cabin fever!!! Do something fun this weekend, try to take your mind off of the relationship for awhile.
