So, H came over around 13:00 and left a few minutes ago (16:45). He is working both days this weekend. Of course he didnt tell me he was working. He told my D in front of me and when I asked him he said annoyed "Yes, I am working today AND tomorrow". I said OK. I was on the computer downloading songs for my nephew and he came to the room and played with my hair. I could tell he felt guilty. It is so horrible for me to realise he thinks it's either work OR us. He clearly wants to work because he enjoys it and as a "sidedish" see us whenever he can. It's starting to get to me.
I am not going to go with this, for long now. I am patient but honestly all this time I am weighing my options and trying to get in tune with my inner wishes while giving him enough rope to hang himself . And when he does, I will be OK. K
. And when he does, I will be OK. 
