N, Take the focus off your xh moving back to the States. Think of other things. When you aren't looking for something, suddenly the dynamics will change. Sit quietly and patiently. Things will begin to drop in your lap when you do this.
No news on the job? Have you touched base with them to see how your interview went?
I read about the nasty weather in your area. It's starting rather early for your area isn't it?
N, take care of yourself...focus on something different today. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
