i have a feeling calling her will do no good. if they are strained, she will absolutely lie and tell me they are together. she has called me before and lied saying terrible things. she is not to be trusted. she used to post her picture with him on facebook (to taunt me i know) but now my friends tell me it is just of her. i know he will not end it with her in letter form. i have sent him so many articles on how to end it, how ending it is crucial. he gets it, but i dont think he does it. or does it, and waffles on it. this whole time in planning the store, he was coming home. he was giving notice at his job and then coming home and never looking back to that area. now it changed. now its, i want the store, i want to focus on us, but im not ready to move back home all at once. wants to do it slowly. is it to be believed? i just dont know.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09