WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[confusedinpa]

I am really struggling with my situation (as I'm sure many others are as well)

I'm torn as my wife right now feels trapped and feels she needs to leave ASAP. I have told her that I love her so much that I want her to fell free so I will not stand in her way

I do not want her to leave but I know its the right thing to do. When she leaves, that may be the last time she lives with me

Having her stay right now, as well as during the last 3 months has not changed her mind about the divorce. Is her staying a cheeseless tunnel? She still hasn't found a reason to work on the marriage. She is mad and frustrated. Right now, she can't see having a happy life with me. Is it truly too late?

Do I just agree with whatever she wants to take from the house or stand up for what I want? Problem is I see the woman I love hurting and it hurts me. Also, I want my marriage more than any of the things. Problem is the marriage maybe so far gone that there is nothing there to want

I do agree with what my wife said last nite, we have messed up bad. I know we are both hurting.

I don't want the next 2 weeks of being constant dialogs that just add to the hurt/resentment

We need to heal

I don't know what to do

Maybe my wife is right this is all a facade

I am truly confused and devastated

I've worked my 180 and she is frustrated when she sees me now doing exactly what she wanted me to do last year. She's mad and frustrated as she feels her words meant nothing back then. It wasn't until she told me that she filed for divorce that I got it.

I know that was the past, I get it now. Its just too late for her