I have not talked to OW...my perception of why she has not contacted me is they are not as far along in their process as my W believes. OW doesnt want to piece together details because she believes they have a chance, my opinion. In my thoughts, if she thought it was over, she'd pick me for info to help her case, even though the info might not help. Just simply, she's not that educated on divorce law, therefore would want all the info she could.
I know I'm the eternal optimist, but for some reason, I do have hope.
