It's all over. We are done. The M has been officially ended.
(now) XW even fought with me this morning about the most petty cr*p, calling me right before my 9 AM conference call with my L. She had denied me from being able to pick up my S's early for today, since I took the day off -- told me I was not supposed to pick them up before 6 PM according to the draft of our unsigned separation agreement. So I relented in that, but this morning she came undone when she asked me again what my plans were for today and when I would pick up S4. I told her 6 PM.
Apparently S4 had heard that I was off and was expecting me to pick him up early today anyway, and (now) XW found herself back-peddling in front of him. So she tried to call me this very morning and make it sound like I was a horrible father for offering to spend a day with his sons but then reneged on it. I had none of it and when I reminded her of what she had said on Sunday, she got infuriated and demanded that I prove to her in writing that she said any such thing, namely her insistence that we adhere to the 6 PM timeline.
Apparently she's an absolute loon now, she blew up several times at me and even hung up before I could respond to her abusive rant. When she did call back I tried to explain to her that I had already made other arrangements for today, but that I would rearrange them entirely for S4's sake.
This was not a pretty conversation.
I realize I should never taken her call. Now we've had the big D I don't think I ever will again. She must have wanted so bad to stoke up her hatred for me -- so as to be able to carry out her day, given the major event taking place.
My L is thinking what I am already convinced is going to happen. That XW will now file for a temporary custody hearing. There are a number of things to consider, but I'm not holding out for much hope should this go to trial, which my L seems to think is now more likely.
I am trying not to hate her, folks. But it is becoming progressively harder to do.
