Sounds like you are getting out & enjoying life now. I do know how hard it is when the XH blames you for everything & says you are not the person he married. Mine did that too but that was before D. I'm afraid my X will also blame me for getting everything that I got. I did get a lot but he is the one that had an A. Same as your X. These MLCer's are so hard to understand.
You are doing great! Hang in there & I'm thinking about you!!!
