K You are doing great everyday that you can work on you and keep expectations low and let H go is a great day we are learning many new behaviors through this and we willreap the rewards of growth and deeper understanding through it It was nice that your H wanted you to see the business records sometimes I see my H trying to do little things involving money and our business..to show me he is trustworthy But since my XH blew our business into the ground and I am still paying catchup..I can not trust him although I take his trying to do the right thing as a good thing for his growth peace
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