Update: W has been hanging out with an old friend from high school. He helped her move.
D8 had her Spring program yesterday. I went, wasn't sure if W would remember. She did. Came and sat with me but didn't say anything. I said Hi and told her she looks nice. Kept up my PMA (finding it easier now). We actually were joking and having some laughs. Having zero expectations makes it easier for me to be myself around her. No more butterflies.
Took the kids to her apartment. Her friend was there hooking up her TV/DVD. She introduced us. I'll admit I had some thoughts creep in as to if anything is going on between them. Squashed it. Does me no good. Can't go on what if's. First time in over a month without the kids so I went out and had a few cold ones with a couple of my boys.
I get a text from her this afternoon telling me she's going to be out of town for the weekend. Why did she need to tell me this? She knows I wouldn't have known if she didn't tell me. Pretty open for someone accusing me of prying into her life. I simply reply "OK. Be safe."
I get home and my son tells me he was disappointed in the visit. Hour and a half after I left she put them to bed even though they didn't have school today. he said she hardly said anything to him the whole time they were there.
She says she wants to be a Mom but her actions don't reflect that right now. Is it because she's not emotionally capable?
