Good to see you posting again lately. Sorry to hear about the MC... In my sitch of course, MC didn't end up helping either. I totally felt like the C was on his side or something at a few points. Looking back, I guess she was trying to make him feel validated, even though he was saying nasty things. Like it's ok for him to say anything on his mind to help open up the dialog- whatever.. I know what you mean about the 'switch' and rewriting history- that's exactly what my x did. I hope your IC helps. That sounds hopeful.
You have done a lot to help save your M, no guilt or shame allowed! I know how easy it is to go there- thoughts in my head still pop up like this, even after my D.
I would love to chat more sometime. Are you on FB or any of those sites? Not sure how to exchange emails on this board.
DBer since 2003 D - 3/24/09 GAL and DBing for myself
