Hahaha, D committee, I like that, it is true though. In my sitch, after my H filed for D in Oct, it took me until Jan to come to grips with it. Where I am fine with it either way. Just because you did some investigating, doesn't mean you have to bite the bullet!! You know that. I think the important part was to tell your H, to get him thinking .... So I have crossed the roads, you are at & I'm maybe turning around to see if I missed anything (even tho I filed the papers). Make sense? We both may be in for more heartache .... but that is a choice each has to make.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)