Yes, but when they are hurt, do they realize what it is they did?
Not until later when they are able to put some perspective on the situation. When they are in the "fantasy" of the A, its all butterflies and unicorns and any guilt or feeling bad is usually cured with magical thinking or another dose of the "OP Drug."
Hate to be Cpt. Bringdown, but its just the reality. The book "Not Just Friends" is kind of depressing, but it is a really good look at the inner workings and its sometimes brutal to read, but it will arm you with information.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
