Hi Karen, thats what i wanted to know. My H is exactly the same. Throws himself in to any new activity 110%. Very addictive personality - not a drinker ( cautious of ) but smoker and CANNOT quit. Leaned on me heavily.
Must be a particular personality. Hs OW has been around 7 months and although he still denies she is nothing more than a friend ( duuurrrr )we all know better. My H has also caused tremendous collateral damage to consider stopping the D process. I would like a better relationship with him but I think thta wont be for a looooooong time
