Right now I have no options. But, if presented and I saw true remorse, true change, true pain from wife for what she did, I suppose I would consider working on it. Do I think that will happen? It might. She is whipped and she may feel like I do and figure out she screwed up.
I read something in the Not 'just friends' book that might be disheartening to some. Lots of times when a spouse is cheating on you - they don't feel guilty, and they really don't think about the BS at all. It is about them and their selfish desires, and nothing else matters.
So when you expect remorse from them... they really aren't able to empathize with you without counseling.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
