No problem John, nothing personal intended so I'm not annoyed with you at all. I think you've done very well to rise above the dirt hopefully T will in good time too, when he realized its not his fault and there's nothing he can do about it.
One thing that does still bother me tho' with downplaying these situations is that the kids invariable grow to believe that what the W is doing is just fine. And they will likely repeat the behavior in their lives. I'm sure their little minds are tortured.
