I have to wish you luck on that. My ex says you have no right to dictate what I can and can not do in my personal life. True, but I do have a vested interest in my children's lives. My stance is that this is the person that actively worked on destroying our marriage and you want to make like happy family with her and the kids???
It is a recipe to destroy the relationship that he has with our kids. He says this is me talking and not the kids. Recently the kids gave him an earful and he was none too pleased. Seems they have minds of their own afterall.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory