My plan is to not talk with her about the OM and just be civil. She moves out Monday. I have to keep telling myself I cant help her and she has to help herself. I am continuing to flip back threw the NMMNG book and work the activities. Granted I read the book in a few days without working the steps. I just couldnt stop reading it.
Other then that I am not sure what else to do besides focus on myself like I have been until she popped up again.
For the record I have dropped 40lbs since she left in 07 and I have kept it off. My plan was and still is to get a great body back for my own confidence. its a little vain but it helps me feel stronger inside. Despite a few set backs dealing with the house and debt she left me Ive done pretty good. The next step is I need to work on talking with women. I get to intimidated if I find them attractive.
