"It'll be what it'll be"...drives me crazy! If I don't feed my kids for a week and they starve do is ay this. Why is not working on a marriage any different.

We haven't ML in over 6 mos. And the last one was a "birthday present" in Sept. Now top top it all off, I have 3 old GF's snooping around. And I've told them in no uncertain terms, I still love my wife, and will wait until the paper is signed.


Me: 36 years old 1st marriage
Wife: 40 years old second marriage
S: 12
D: 6
Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09.
PA confirmed 03/09
Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.