I wondered if there was someone else also. I asked her directly and she looked me in the eyes and said that there isn't and never has been. I have spoke with her best friends and even her mother, none of them had any idea that she was unhappy and was thinking of leaving. It surprised them just as much as it did me. None of the people that she is close to believe that there is someone else.
I can't know for sure, but I do believe her that there isn't someone else in the picture right now. The only sign that I can see is her wanting to get out on her own for some time. She was never secretive with phone calls, emails and such. I never got the feeling that she was trying to hide something.
I guess only time will tell.
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